Tuesday, October 18, 2011

New beginnings

The summer of my final year of college was an eventful one, that is for sure! I had two new roommates that had moved in, one I had lived with at my previous house, and the other girl I had just met through my other roommate.

The semester started off great. We had many nights out together, and for the first few months, there was no drama amongst any of us! By June, things started to get really bad with my boyfriend and I. And by the end of June I had decided it was time for us to end things. It was one of the hardest things I had to do, and it resulted in a lot, and I mean a lot, of emotional ups and downs.

We tried to remain friends for the summer, but by the end of the summer, things were not going well and we ended up not speaking together. This time apart made me really miss him and when I decided I wanted to talk again, and maybe actualy try things again, it was too late. He had moved on and found someone else.

I was lucky enough to have my roommates and family with me to help me through this time in my life. It took along time for me to finally feel like myself again. I finished my college program and moved straight into University to obtain my BBA. I kept myself busy with school and made a lot of new friends because of it. I

In the end, I realized that the breakup was for the best and we were both better off not being together. And although it took me a very long time to come to that conclusion and to fully move on from things, I am glad I did. I feel that it made me have to come out of my shell and go out and meet new people in my program. While we were together, I never really did that. I found that since we broke up, my schooling/grades have improved so much.

Starting my University program being single and living with the 3 girls that I did really made me feel that things were turning around for me, that this was a new beginning. But of course, living with all girls, there is also going to drama invovled!

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